Marriage: Self-Centered vs. Other-Centered

Rev. Dr. Avedis and Dr. Arpi Boynerian

One of the loveliest relationships starts in the hearts of a man and a woman, who love each other and are each other’s shining stars. Their love moves them to give their best to build a meaningful and lasting relationship – one that moves away from living a self-centered to the other-centered life.

The other-centered life, focusing on one’s spouse and adding value to their life, is an important ingredient of a successful marriage. Selflessness bears fruits of contentment, mutual respect, understanding and fulfillment. It is the foundation of a marriage, as a husband and wife encounter life’s many joys and difficulties. It is vital to support the marriage relationship and, as a community, feel responsible to protect it against everyday challenges. 

We are grateful to God for the Armenian clergy of the New England churches, who see the importance of supporting the marriage relationship as a church and community and keep it thriving and fulfilling.

We are happy to announce that we will resume our annual couples’ gathering and have our first meeting on Thursday, November 9 at 6:00 p.m. at St. Stephen’s Armenian Apostolic Church, 38 Elton Ave., Watertown, Mass. 

We encourage all couples to attend.

Reverend Dr. Avedis Boynerian has been the Senior Minister of the Armenian Memorial (Congregational) Church since October 2003. He had previously served as the Minister to the Armenian Evangelical Martyrs’ Church of Aleppo, Syria. He graduated from the Andover Newton Theological School in 2011 with a Doctor of Ministry.
Dr. Arpi Boynerian graduated as a Medical Doctor in 1987 from the Medical University of Aleppo. In 1993, she got her specialized degree as an ophthalmologist from the University's Al Razi Hospital. While in Aleppo, she shared the gospel and her testimony with the Women's Auxiliary of the Armenian Consulate. She and her family moved to the US in 2003. Dr. Boynerian now works with Dr. Charles Barsam at North Suburban Eye Association and faithfully serves with her husband Rev. Dr. Avedis Boynerian at Armenian Memorial Church.