Marriage: Self-Centered vs. Other-Centered

Rev. Dr. Avedis and Dr. Arpi Boynerian

One of the loveliest relationships starts in the hearts of a man and a woman, who love each other and are each other’s shining stars. Their love moves them to give their best to build a meaningful and lasting relationship – one that moves away from living a self-centered to the other-centered life.

The other-centered life, focusing on one’s spouse and adding value to their life, is an important ingredient of a successful marriage. Selflessness bears fruits of contentment, mutual respect, understanding and fulfillment. It is the foundation of a marriage, as a husband and wife encounter life’s many joys and difficulties. It is vital to support the marriage relationship and, as a community, feel responsible to protect it against everyday challenges. 

We are grateful to God for the Armenian clergy of the New England churches, who see the importance of supporting the marriage relationship as a church and community and keep it thriving and fulfilling.

We are happy to announce that we will resume our annual couples’ gathering and have our first meeting on Thursday, November 9 at 6:00 p.m. at St. Stephen’s Armenian Apostolic Church, 38 Elton Ave., Watertown, Mass. 

We encourage all couples to attend.

Reverend Dr. Avedis Boynerian has been the Senior Minister of the Armenian Memorial (Congregational) Church since October 2003. He had previously served as the Minister to the Armenian Evangelical Martyrs’ Church of Aleppo, Syria. He graduated from the Andover Newton Theological School in 2011 with a Doctor of Ministry.
Dr. Arpi Boynerian graduated as a Medical Doctor in 1987 from the Medical University of Aleppo. In 1993, she got her specialized degree as an ophthalmologist from the University's Al Razi Hospital. While in Aleppo, she shared the gospel and her testimony with the Women's Auxiliary of the Armenian Consulate. She and her family moved to the US in 2003. Dr. Boynerian now works with Dr. Charles Barsam at North Suburban Eye Association and faithfully serves with her husband Rev. Dr. Avedis Boynerian at Armenian Memorial Church.


Armenpress: Armenian border positions in Gegharkunik come under Azeri gunfire

 09:38, 5 September 2023

YEREVAN, SEPTEMBER 5, ARMENPRESS. Armenian military outposts in the Gegharkunik Province came under Azerbaijani gunfire in the early hours on Tuesday, the Armenian Ministry of Defense said in a statement.

The Azerbaijani forces used small arms shortly after midnight to target Armenian outposts near the village of Kut.

“On September 5, between 12:05 a.m. and 12:20 a.m.., Azerbaijani armed forces units fired from fire arms towards the Armenian combat outposts nearby Kut (Gegharkunik [province]),” the Armenian Ministry of Defense said.

WATCH: BBC interview with Serj Tankian, Artak Beglaryan on Nagorno-Karabakh humanitarian crisis

 14:52, 2 September 2023

YEREVAN, SEPTEMBER 2, ARMENPRESS. The BBC has interviewed Armenian-American musician, System of a Down frontman Serj Tankian and Nagorno-Karabakh’s ex-ombudsman Artak Beglaryan on the humanitarian crisis in Nagorno-Karabakh.

Tankian and Beglaryan spoke about the blockade of Lachin Corridor and the humanitarian crisis resulting from the illegal actions of the government of Azerbaijan.

Tankian warned that the government of Azerbaijan is bribing European legislators to achieve its goal, referring to the infamous Caviar Diplomacy, and that Baku is taking advantage of its oil supplies.

Beglaryan said that the Nagorno-Karabakh conflict has a geopolitical subtext and that ever since the conflict between Russia and the West worsened the Nagorno-Karabakhis became the collateral victims of that conflict.

Tankian said that the UK has economic interests in Azerbaijan, particularly the British Petroleum, and that’s why the UK is not calling out Azerbaijan. He called on the British government to use its influence on Azerbaijan and prevent the genocide and starvation in Nagorno-Karabakh.

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Lachin Corridor, the only road connecting Nagorno-Karabakh to Armenia and the rest of the world, has been blocked by Azerbaijan since late 2022. The Azerbaijani blockade constitutes a gross violation of the 2020 Nagorno-Karabakh ceasefire agreement, which established that the 5km-wide Lachin Corridor shall be under the control of Russian peacekeepers. Furthermore, on February 22, 2023 the United Nations’ highest court – the International Court of Justice (ICJ) – ordered Azerbaijan to “take all steps at its disposal” to ensure unimpeded movement of persons, vehicles and cargo along the Lachin Corridor in both directions.  Azerbaijan has been ignoring the order ever since. The ICJ reaffirmed its order on 6 July 2023.

Azerbaijan then illegally installed a checkpoint on Lachin Corridor. The blockade has led to shortages of essential products such as food and medication. Azerbaijan has also cut off gas and power supply into Nagorno Karabakh, with officials warning that Baku seeks to commit ethnic cleansing against Armenians in Nagorno-Karabakh. Hospitals have suspended normal operations.




Azerbaijan blockade of Nagorno-Karabakh road sparks ‘humanitarian catastrophe’

The Global Herald
Aug 21 2023


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U.S. Ambassador visits Sanahin Monastery in Lori Province, Armenia

 11:43,

YEREVAN, AUGUST 19, ARMENPRESS. U.S. Ambassador to Armenia Kristina Kvien visited the Sanahin Monastery in the Lori Province to view ongoing preservation work in the complex, the U.S. Embassy in Armenia said in a statement on social media.

“Ambassador Kvien visited Sanahin Monastery in beautiful Lori to view ongoing preservation work on several elements of the complex, funded by the Ambassadors Fund for Cultural Preservation. While there she was also greeted by the Mayor of Alaverdi. The U.S. fund is supporting preservation of a group of Eastern monuments in the complex, including the St. Hakop Chapel, the memorial-khachkar of Grigor Tuteordi, and the St. Harutyun Church, and is being led by the Armenian Association of the Architects Restoring Historical Monuments NGO. The U.S. Embassy is proud to support conservation of this important site of Armenia's rich history and cultural heritage,” the U.S. Embassy said.

UNSC has power to prevent genocide, says Nagorno-Karabakh

 17:43,

YEREVAN, AUGUST 18, ARMENPRESS. Nagorno-Karabakh Foreign Minister Sergey Ghazaryan has thanked the countries that called out Azerbaijan during the August 16 UN Security Council meeting for blockading Lachin Corridor, but at the same time expressed concern about the positions of some other countries.

“I’d like to take this opportunity to thank the representatives of those countries that have given clear wordings to Azerbaijan’s policy and the illegal blockade of the Lachin Corridor,” Ghazaryan said at a press conference on Friday.

“At the same time, we are concerned about the attempts of a number of countries to equalize the Lachin Corridor with some other roads and transport connections, which is inadmissible and doesn’t match the parameters of the Lachin Corridor defined under the 9 November 2020 document. I have to note that convening this emergency meeting of the UNSC is just the beginning, and this process will continue. In terms of capabilities, indeed, the UNSC is the body that has both the jurisdiction and powers to prevent the kind of genocidal policy we see from Azerbaijan,” Ghazaryan said.

The international community must take clear steps to suppress the Azerbaijani side, which has deliberately chosen the method of starvation to commit genocide in Nagorno-Karabakh, Ghazaryan warned citing the report by former ICC chief prosecutor Luis Moreno Ocampo.

On August 15, Nagorno-Karabakh  that a 40-year-old man has died of starvation.

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Azerbaijan’s blockade of Nagorno Karabakh and the failure of US diplomacy

eKathimerini, Greece
Aug 16 2023
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The UN Security Council scheduled an emergency meeting on Wednesday to discuss the worsening humanitarian situation in Nagorno-Karabakh, or Artsakh, as a result of Azerbaijan’s blockade of the Lachin corridor. For over eight months, the region’s 120,000 indigenous Armenians have been deprived access to food, medicine, fuel, electricity, and water.

Gev Iskajyan, the Executive Director of the Armenian National Committee of Artsakh, joins Thanos Davelis from Artsakh to look at the humanitarian crisis that’s unfolding on the ground as a result of Azerbaijan’s blockade, and discuss his latest op-ed which explores how US diplomacy is currently failing the people of Artsakh and Armenia. 

Listen to the podcast at 

https://www.ekathimerini.com/multimedia/podcasts/1217857/azerbaijans-blockade-of-nagorno-karabakh-and-the-failure-of-us-diplomacy/

Asbarez: Did the UN Security Council Shrug Off the Artsakh Humanitarian Crisis?

The UN Security Council meets to discuss Azerbaijan's blockade of Artsakh on Aug. 16


Yerevan Urges UN Security Council Members to Prevent Genocide

BY ARA KHACHATOURIAN

It is unclear what impact will be of the United Nations Security Council session addressing Azerbaijan’s blockade of Artsakh and the acute humanitarian crisis that has resulted. However, official Yerevan took the opportunity to urge the countries represented at the Security Council to prevent another Genocide.

Foreign Minister Ararat Mirzoyan attended the Wednesday’s emergency UN Security Council session, during which and overwhelming majority of the country representatives called on Azerbaijan to lift the blockade of the Lachin Corridor and ensure the flow of humanitarian assistance to Artsakh.

There was a caveat: Most country representatives emphasized the importance of the peace talks between Armenia and Azerbaijan, with the humanitarian crisis in Artsakh almost taking a back seat to the conversation, whose main purpose was to address what the former prosecutor general of the International Criminal Court called a genocide in progress by Azerbaijan.

Some speakers also opted to advance Baku’s scheme of an alternative route for the delivery of humanitarian assistance to Artsakh — one that completely cuts off Armenia from Artsakh. Baku’s more ardent allies, such as Albania, highlighted the Aghdam-Stepanakert road as a viable option, parroting Azerbaijan’s insistence that a blockade is not —and has not been — underway.

Of course, this is the manifestation of the current global geopolitical climate, which is dominated by the countries’ posturing on the Russia-Ukraine war and overshadows any legitimate humanitarian issue anywhere around the world, unless it fits with that narrative.

Armenia was represented by its foreign minister, Ararat Mirzoyan, whose presentation provided a factual look at the events leading up to Wednesday’s session. He did urge the UNSC member-states to utilize their influence to prevent a genocide.

Below are excerpts from his speech.

So, today I am here to seek your support to address issues of very humanitarian nature and we expect from this Council:

  • to condemn the use of starvation of civilians as a method of warfare, prohibited by international law;
  • to condemn the unlawful denial of humanitarian access and depriving the civilian population in Nagorno-Karabakh of objects indispensable to their survival, including willfully impeding relief supply and access for responses to conflict‑induced food insecurity;
  • to demand full compliance with obligations under the international humanitarian law, including those related to the protection of civilians, in particular women and children, and critical civilian infrastructure;
  • to call for the immediate restoration of freedom and security of movement of persons, vehicles and cargo, in line with the previously reached agreements, through the Lachin corridor;
  • to ensure full cooperation of the parties in good faith with the International Committee of the Red Cross and safe and unimpeded delivery of humanitarian assistance;
  • to dispatch an independent inter-agency needs assessment mission in Nagorno-Karabakh and provide humanitarian assistance to the affected population.

These humanitarian issues clearly need to be resolved with the international community’s strong intervention before the negative consequences result in ethnic cleansing of the people of Nagorno-Karabakh. According to the elected representatives of Nagorno-Karabakh, “This is a deliberately engineered crime, driven by evident genocidal intent. The Azerbaijani authorities purposefully instigated the blockade of the Lachin corridor, with the knowledge that it would subject the entire population of Nagorno-Karabakh to a gradual demise, yet chose to persist with this course of action.”

At the same time, the report of International Criminal Court former prosecutor Luis Moreno Ocampo reflects that it is already a genocide that is happening in Nagorno-Karabakh. According to Mr. Ocampo, “The blockade of the Lachin corridor by the Azerbaijani security forces impeding access to any food, medical supplies, and other essentials should be considered a Genocide under Article II, (c) of the Genocide Convention: “Deliberately inflicting on the group conditions of life calculated to bring about its physical destruction. Starvation is the invisible Genocide weapon. Without immediate dramatic change, this group of Armenians will be destroyed in a few weeks.”

Distinguished Council, the prevention of such a catastrophe is a core duty of the United Nations and this Council. I do believe that this distinguished body, despite of geopolitical differences, has capacity to act as genocide prevention body and not as genocide commemoration, when it might be too late.

What Mirzoyan did not put forward was urging the UN Security Council to send a fact-finding mission to Artsakh.

The United States, which is chairing the Security Council this month, agreed to bring Armenia’s request to a debate. The State Department has called on Azerbaijan to lift the Lachin blockade. Linda Thomas-Greenfield, the U.S. Ambassador to the UN who was chairing the meeting, reiterated that. But the American policy on this issue has not been to take concrete steps, but rather to push Armenia and Azerbaijan to sign an agreement at all costs.

The meeting began with a briefing by Edem Wosornu, the UN’s Office for the Coordination of Humanitarian Affairs Director of Operations and Advocacy, who said the there is no first hand perspective on the situation on the ground. She did not emphasize that Azerbaijan has not allowed for the UN and international bodies to visit Artsakh since the 2020 war.

The session ended with the representatives of the Azerbaijan and Turkey essentially having the final word.

Ruben Vardanyan, Artsakh’s former State Minister summed up the reality of Wednesday’s so-called emergency meeting.

“The UN member states lack a precise understanding of the situation due to their inability to access Nagorno-Karabakh. Consequently, they may not fully comprehend the gravity of the circumstances. While calls are significant, tangible actions are required to avert any further deterioration,” Vardanyan said in a post on X, the social media platform formerly known as Twitter.

“I implore the UN to dispatch a mission to witness the reality on the ground. I am confident that following this firsthand experience, they will be resolute in taking definitive actions to counter Azerbaijan’s genocidal policy,” he added.

Asbarez: Nareg Keshishian Appointed Principal of Armenian Mesrobian School

Nareg Keshishian is the new principal of Armenian Mesrobian School


The Board of Regents of the Prelacy Armenian Schools announced the appointment of Nareg Keshishian as the new principal of Armenian Mesrobian School. 

Nareg Keshishian is a proud graduate of Armenian Mesrobian School, class of 1981, and his educational background includes a degree in History from University of California at Los Angeles (UCLA), and teaching credential from Teachers College Columbia University. Mr. Keshishian has received numerous awards including Revson Foundation/NY Times 50 most inspirational teachers in NY City and the Hoover Hero award.

With a rich background in education, which includes teaching, mentoring, and administration, Keshishian has designed and implemented an enrichment program for Kindergarten, 4th, 5th and 9th grades at The Renaissance School, Queens NY and has served as a teacher and mentoring program coordinator at Paul Robeson HS, Brooklyn NY. After his time in New York,

Keshishian has served as a teacher, student body advisor and chair of the Western Association of Schools and Colleges (WASC) school culture group at Hoover HS in Glendale, CA and as a teacher, Director of APEX credit recovery program, and chapter advisor for Junior State of America and Armenian club at Crescenta Valley High School in La Crescenta, CA.

“The Prelacy Armenian Schools and specifically Armenian Mesrobian School is a familiar environment for Nareg Keshishian. A graduate of Armenian Mesrobian School, Nareg Keshishian has the unique opportunity to circle back and return to his beloved Armenian Mesrobian School and serve the new generation of Armenian-American students,” said Sarkis Ourfalian the chair Board of Regents.

We have great confidence in Mr. Keshishian’s abilities and we are certain that he, along with the School Board and community, will be able to advance the educational growth of our students at Armenian Mesrobian School. His extensive background and experience in the educational field and knowledge about Armenian Mesrobian School and the greater Montebello community, makes him a unique candidate for the position. We strongly believe that with the support of the faculty and staff, the local School Board, and local and school committees Nareg Keshishian is destined to succeed as principal of Armenian Mesrobian School,” added Ourfalian.

The Board of Regents of the Prelacy Armenian Schools congratulated Nareg Keshishian and the Armenian Mesrobian School community and wished them continued success in their mission.

LISTEN: Is there a genocide on the horizon for Armenian Christians?

Aug 2 2023
 The Washington Times  Thursday, August 3, 2023

A potential genocide could be brewing in Nagorno Karabakh, putting Armenian Christians at risk, a group of Republican senators wants to know whether taxpayer funds have been used to block Kirk Cameron’s library readings — and is religious freedom at risk across the globe? Billy sits down with Joel Veldkamp, Head of International Communications at Christian Solidarity International to understand the crisis in Nagorno Karabakh. Meanwhile, Washington Times reporter Mark Kellner comes on the show to discuss these stories: No taxpayer dollars to block Kirk Cameron library events, demand GOP senators and European Union nations promote religious liberty abroad, but fail at home, U.S. panel says.

Episode link: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/an-impending-genocide-for-armenian-christians-plus/id1401499962?i=1000623142043

Listen to the Podcast at https://www.washingtontimes.com/news/2023/aug/3/listen-there-genocide-horizon-armenian-christians/